A lie

Oh, that quality (attribute), which is to us so hideous, that we´re almost loathed by it. That experience, which we fear of. That person, who´s not worthy of our attention anymore... (slam essay)

Part II.

I decided to write trilogy of short thoughts about three qualities, which guide us through life and co-create history, but as we somehow claim, that we don´t have them. Better said, others have them, as well instead of us.

It is, as it wouldn´t even exist; such a phenomenon, which is, but at the same time its not seen by anybody, or they don´t want to see it, so in reality, we don´t even know, if it´s not an illusion, which should be scientifically disproved, as a relic of myths and legends.

It seems, that it appears, when we cleared, that it doesn´t exist, as a substitute of straight answer for an exact question. It appears in form in some sort of habit, sort of lifestyle, where one does not actually know, if he bluff by body language, or the tongue language.

Mostly we have a feeling, that its lied to us (as we never lie by ourself, and lie doesn´t exist, so we only make it up for our satisfaction) for different reasons and in various moments without regards on needs, interests, position, genetic formation of deceived one, or actual weather. Simly it´s just happening and we are aware of it, but we can´t even don´t need to know, what we shall do against it. I believe, that it was written minimaly dozen of books, if not the whole studies, as the one, which I got to on TEDx from Pamela Meyer. It is a summary how we shall spot a liar. Because not all of us are born police inspectors, I think, we don´t need to spot them, as we know them for some time.

A lie is for liar as a secluded private island with stock of everything, from where he can show us anything, what we want to see. But we don´t have access to the island, so we can see it only through the binoculars. It is quite convincing and it should be enough, but what if.

The thing is my dear readers, that I present here my hypothesis, that a lie is united comprehensive diagnosis of us all. I suggest to add it to a list of psychosis, which significantly influence lives not just our owns, but even all others by which we actually create continuously history and reality based purely on lie. So, when I say, that human on this planet didn´t even evolved, basically I´m telling the truth. Try to disprove it.

Why you don´ť accept lying as illness and I do? Because the doctor´s ego, so-called self-esteem, feels touched and abused, when it meets with a lie. So it´s not able (that ego) independently from it´s own feelings look at reality and suggest alternative explanations connected to itself, instead of to the liar.

Friend of mine expressed on social medium, that she hates liars, and I got it that time. We hate liars, but we all lie. Who claims, that he doesn´t, lies. Lying we had to learn as all other human skills by development to adulthood and it´s our integral part. We pass it on to our ancestors and then we are horrified, that they give it us back.

Lying is result of our life experiences, so a lie is completely unique and usually unnoticeable, always unadmittable, easily disproven- hard to rehabilitate, sometimes proven and maybe possibly to unlearn-able. But have anybody tried it scientifically experimentally?

Let´s not blame our liars, but let´s be an example and let us stop lying to each other. Let´s really begin to do, what we are saying, let´s stop to think else, let´s try to admit, that we are like that, but we can change yet and let´s explain to our children, that we haven´t realized it till now!!!

Eleventh commandment: YOU DON´T FOOL ME!